Thursday, September 22, 2011

"Talking To The Moon"

I know you're somewhere out there
Somewhere far away
I want you back
I want you back
My neighbours think
I'm crazy
But they don't understand
You're all I have
You're all I have

At night when the stars
light up my room
I sit by myself
Talking to the Moon.
Try to get to You
In hopes you're on
the other side
Talking to me too.
Or Am I a fool
who sits alone
Talking to the moon?

I'm feeling like
I'm famous
The talk of the town
They say
I've gone mad
Yeah
I've gone mad
But they don't know
what I know
Cause when the
sun goes down
someone's talking back
Yeah
They're talking back

Ahh...Ahh...Ahh..
Do you ever hear me calling
(Ahh...Ahh..Ahh..)
Ho hou ho ho hou

'Cause every night
I'm talking to the moon

Still try to get to you
In hopes you're on
the other side
Talking to me too
Or am I a fool
who sits alone
Talking to the moon?

Ohoooo...

I know you're somewhere out there
Somewhere far away 

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

KAREEB !!

HAR PAL JB TUM HUMME YE KEHTE HO EHSAAS DILAATE HO K HUM TUMHAARE DILL KE KAREEB HAI,
HUM TUMSE JITNA BHI DOOR GYE HOTE HAI FIR KAREEB AJATE HAI...
YE DOORIA NAZDIKKIA HUMSE SEHAN NAHI NAHI AUR HUM KUCH NA KUCH ANAAB SHANAABH KAR JAATE HAI,
TUM KEHTE HO TUMHE KYA HUA, TUM AISA KYU KARTE HO, MAI TO BILKULL THEEK HU, PAR AB HUM TUMHE KYA BATAAYE YE JO KAMBAKHAT HUMAARA DILL HAI YE HUMSE KYA KUCH KARWAATA HAI,
KABHI TUMHE DOOR AUR KABHI BILKULL KAREEB PAATA HAI
AUR KABHI TUMHE DOOR AUR KABHI BILKULL KAREEB PAATA HAI !!

BHULLANA BHI NAHI AATA

HUMM KITNA BHI TUMHE BHULLANE KI KOSHISH KARRE TUM YAAD AA HI JAATE HO,
KUCH PALL NIKAAL LETE HAI HUM YE KEHKAR KI TUM TO PRAAYE HO,
PAR FIR TUM YAAD AAJAATE HO, YAD AAJATE HO....
HUMNE KAYI BAAR TUMHE BHULLANA CHAHA PAR WO SABB KISSI KAAM NA AAYA,
JB TUM HUMAARE SAAMNE AAJATE HO, HUMME FIR WO PURAANE DIN YAAD AAJAATE HAI ! :-(

TUM JAANO NA

TUM KYA  JAANO TUMHARE BIN IS DIL KA KYA HAAL HAI,
HAR LAMHA HUMME AAJ BHI TUMHARA INTEZAAR HAI,

TUM YE SABB JAANTE, YE KEHKAR HUMM DILL KO SAMBHAAL LETTE HAI AUR FIR DUSRE HI PALL HUM KEHTE HAI TUM ITNE KYU ISS SABBSE ANJAAN HO!!

TUM KUCH KHAAS HO

TUMHAARE PAS HONNE KA HUMME TAB EHSAAS THA,
TUMM MEIN KUCH NA KUCH TO KHAS THA,
JB TUM MERE PAS HOTTE THE TUMHAARI KHUSHBU MERI SAANSO MEI SAMA JAATI THI,
TUMHARE SPARSH SE TUMHARI KHUSHBU SE HUM JAAN JAATE THE KE TUM HAMARE AAS PAAS HO, K TUM HUMAARE KHAAS HO, TUMM HUMAARE KHAAS HO !!!

KYU

KYU HUM KISSI KO ITNA CHAAH JAATE HAI,
KYU HUM KISSI K LIYE APNE AAP KO BHULLA JAATE HAI,
HUM JAANTE HAI ISSKA ANJAAM BURA HAI,
FIR BHI KYU HUM ANJAAN BAN JAATE HAI....
FIR BHI KYU HUM ANJAAN BAN JAATE HAI !!

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

We Take Everything For Granted

We Take Everything For Granted,
-A Constantly Worried Mom,
-A Strict Dad,
-Annoying Brother,
-Rude Sister,
-Chipku Frnd,
-Possesive Lover,
-Demanding Wife,
-Complaining Husband,
.
.
Blink!.!.
When u Lose them...
.
.
Then,
You'll Miss Them As
.
.
-Caring Mom,
-Concerned Dad,
-Best Bro,
-Stupid Sis,
-My Heart: My Frnd,
-My Lyf:My Luv.
-My entire world: Husband/wife

Don't Take them for Granted.
Life Never Givs a Second Chance. !!
'Just Love them'.... :)

SANNAATTA

IS MUSKURAHAT K PICHE CHHIPPI KOI AAHT HAI,
IS IS MUSKURAHAT K PICHE CHHIPPI KOI AAHT HAI,
ABB TUMSE KYA PARDA YE TO EK UPRRI SAJAAWAT HAI,
EK SJAWAT HAI, AUR TUMHAARA DILL RAKHNE KE LIYE HI TO YE BNAWATT HAI !!

SAGGU

Monday, September 12, 2011

TUM BIN

TUM BIN HAR LAMHA ADHURA LAGGTA THA,
TUM BIN HAR PAL SUNNA SUNNA SA LAGTA THA,
PTA NAHI TUMHE BHI AISA  LAGTA THA !!
PAR HUMAARA TUMHAARE BIN EK PALL BHI NA KATT TA THA !!

SAGGU

Sunday, September 11, 2011

PYAAR EK EHSAAS

KIO AJJ B MAI TUMHARI TARAF KHICHA CHALLA AATA HU,
KIO AJJ B MAI TUMHARI TARAF KHICHA CHALLA AATA HU,
NA JAANE MAI ZINDAGGI SE KYA CHAHTA HU,
NA JAANE MAI ZINDAGGI SE KYA CHAHTA HU,
KABHI TUMHE DOOR AUR KABBI TUMHE PASS PATA HU,
KABHI TUMHE DORR AUR KABHI DIL K KAREEB PATA HU....

TABB TO MAINE TUMHE BOL DIA MAI TUMHARI KHUSH NUMHAAR ZINDAGGI SE CHALLA JAATA HU,
TABB TO MAINE TUMHE BOL DIA MAI TUMHARI KHUSH NUMHAAR ZINDAGGI SE CHALLA JAATA HU,
WO KEHNA TO BOHAT AASAAN THA PARR....
KAR NAHI PAATA HU
FIR BHI KIO TUMHE KABHI DOOR AUR KABBI TUMHE PASS PATA HU,
KABHI TUMHE DOOR AUR  KABHI DIL K KAREEB PATA HU....

AAJ BHI JABB TUM MERE SAMMNE AAJATE HO,
AAJ BHI JABB TUMM MERE DILL K SAAMNE AAJATE HO,
DILL KI UN TARANGGO KO CHEDD JAATE HO,
AUR  MAI SIRF YEHHI KEH PATA HU..
MAI TUMHE ITNAA KIO CHAHTA HU....

YE KABHI MATT SOCHNA TUMM MUJHE YAAD AAKR,MERE DILL K KAREEB AAKAR DUKH PAHUNCHAATE HO,
TUMM TO APNE THE, APNE HO, PAR DUKH ISS BAAT KA HAI AAJ BHI HUMM TUMHE UTNA HI CHAHTE HAI, AUR TUM ISS BAAT KO BHI SAMJH PAATE HO.... :-(

AAJ BHI JABB TUMHAARI TASVEER MERE ANKHO KE SAAMNE AAJATI HAI,
WO CHUPP REHKAR MUSKURA KAR BOHAT KUCH KEH JAATI HAI,
MUJHE USS MUSKURAT MEI BOHAT KUCH SAMJHA JAATI HAI, :-)
AUR FIR HUMME TUMHARI YAAD AJAATI HAI, TUMHAARI YAAD BHI AA HI JAATI HAI.... :-(

TUMM MEI KUCH KASSMAKASH HAI, 
TUMM MEI WO BHOLLA PAN, APNA PAN ,NAZAAKAT AUR WO SHARM AJJ BHI HAI,
PAR ABB JABB TUMHAARA HAATH THAMA USSEME WO EHSAAS ABB KAMM HAI....

SAGGU

Sunday, July 17, 2011

“Lessons learnt from the fairer sex”

                                    
Being in a relationship is the best feeling in world, only if the two
souls can understand each other and make their
present beautiful!! When things don’t work out
between the two then the experiences make ous grow.
So here are few things which might help you guys…….

• It takes two often with the pain and breakup, it is easy to blame the other person
for your distress. But the reality is that if the relationship was
no longer working, you were part of the difficulty. Judge what is
going on so that you can apply the reasons to your relationship.
• Give girls their personal space girls like to hug & cuddle. They may seem to always b around. But they
need their personal space too. Men have tendency to b
possessive. Trust is a key component in a relationship. Wen u
attack her private space, u send the message that u don’t trust
her. This leads to the end of beautiful relation.
• U get stronger over time wen u wake up in the morning & the pains almost real, u can believe that u are
going to never get over the breakup. But the truth is that not
only does time heal all discomfort, but u will emerge from
breakup a more robust person.
• Its okay if it wasn’t intended to be Coming to aaccept that a relationship wasn’t intended to b
is a key factor in healing. If u had started projecting your
relationship in future considering marriage, contemplating
youngsters & then the woman u were with broke everything off
consider ita blessing. Its better to end up relation that wasn’t
intended to b earliar than later.
• Good things doesn’t occur unless u make them happen
U cant control what occurred, but u can control how u react to what
occurred. If u want good things to happen in future, u have to make
them happen.

That means getting back on the pony. Go out, meet new people.
Have fun. Eventually you’ll end up into another relation. And , if you
have followed the advice in this article about things, the relation will
be even better & stronger than the last one.

Friday, June 3, 2011

Difference Between Lust and Infatuation



Lust and infatuation r like 2 sides of the same coin. They are 2 different faces of the coin; each is unique and has its own status in society. :-)
Lust
The dictionary meanings of lust are:
> Strong sexual desire or appetite.
> Illicit or uncontrolled sexual desire or appetite.
> An overmastering or passionate desire or craving.
> To have a desire or yearning to have an excessive craving or strong craving.
We need 2 understand that lust is not just used for sexual desire; it is used for intense hunger, passion, or craving for things which are considered materialistic in our society. There are many examples of lust> eg, someone’s lust 4 power, meaning their intense desire 2 B in POWER.
Someone’s lust 4 life, meaning intense passion towards living UR life, doing things you love not just existing or surviving or dragging on in ur life but living ur life to the FULLEST.
Lust for money, meaning a huge appetite for gathering money in one way or another thus a strong d3sire.
In our daily life we hear the word “lust” and relate it to someone’s s3xUaL desire 2wards someone, but the core of this word refers to an intense craving 4 something or some1. The hunger is so strong that 1 wants to achieve whatever they desire with or without rul3s. Morality, legitimacy, and appropriateness do not figure or mean much, when one lusts after something or someone, one can cross any limits. This is the reason Y lust is considered 1 of the 7 sins.
Lust 4 some1 can be easily mistaken 4 love very easily as the object of a person’s desire might consider lust of someone 4 th3m as intense love. But, as we all know, love is virtuous and only inspires people to do positive things whereas lust can be a result of a negative inspiration :-D. It might be a selfish act to please only oneself and not care for the feelings or pleasure of another. It is absolutely conditional; the condition being attaining something or someone at all costs.




Infatuation
The dictionary meanings of infatuation are:
>State of being infatuated or the act of infatuation.
>Extravagant or foolish passion. :-p
Infatuation refers to momentary emotional or physical attraction towards someone you like, their mannerisms, their physical appearance, the way they talk, walk, the way dey dress, the way they behave in society, it can be anthing. Infatuation can be 2wards some1 you don’t know at all, such as 2wards celebrities. It is for a very short period of time and is almost erased from the memory after you find someone else to direct your feelings 2wards. Once infatuated, a person might get the same feeling as being in love. But, again, love is not conditional whereas infatuation is all about liking some particular featurEs of a person; lose the features and it’s over. This word refers only to the ATTRACTION of 1 person 2wards another.
Summary:
1.Infatuation refers to momentary attraction of one person towards another but doesn't take the bad side ; lust refers to intense desire for something or someone at any cost n is considered negative.
2.Infatuation is between two people. Lust is not only for a person. It could be for power, money, life, etc.


HAPPY LOVING :-)

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

HEART TOUCHING TRAK :-)

<3 <3

Friday, May 27, 2011

heyy guys listen to dis trak !!


barso ke baad dekha :-)

lovely song for ur lover - switchfoot



there's always sumthing getting thru, itz not in me itz in u :-*

Thursday, May 26, 2011

The Thing Called Love -Kartik Tewari




*Untied hair,Folded Sleeves and Grey Skirt
*That was the day when i lost my heart
*Beautiful enough to glue my eyes
*And irresistable when she smiles
*Heard about it-Talked about it-Now the thing was behooved
*Yes,The Thing Called Love<3
*It Struck me,feeling which everyone experience in life
*Never knew was it wrong or was it right
*I was seated on cloud no.9
*The only thing i could call mine
*It was as peaceful as Dove
*Yes,The Thing Called Love
*Staring at her was what i desired
*Sweet Voice with a naughty tone i admire
*I was always Lost she was to be blamed
*Even at night i used to murmur her name
*The thing which was above
*Yes,The Thing Called Love
*I don't know what i mean to you
*The fact is i cant live without you
*You are the fairy of my dreams i wanted to say
*But dont know why my mind gave a stay
*The thing which made my heart alcove
*Yes,The Thing Called Love
*Now after years when you met
* "You never missed me" she said
*I whispered 'The night you thought my tears for you dried
*Same night i missed you and cried'
*Yes,the thing us called love
*I was and i am in love
*But that Just don't solve the purpose
-KARTIK TEWARI

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

" I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart........"



Here's a small story 'bout a married couple…:
When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said,
I’ve  something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I WANT A DIVORCE by saying this  I raised the topic calmly.She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question which made her angry. She threw away the plates at the dinning table and shouted at me, U r not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other, v didnt face each other while sleeping. she wept whole night. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I
could hardly give her a satisfactory answer.
She had lost my heart to sara. I didn’t love
her anymore. I just pitied her! i was in love with Sara.

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she
could own our house, our car, and 35% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent eight years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time,
resources and energy but I could not take
back what I had said for I loved Sara so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see.To me her cry was actually a kind of
release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day
with Sara. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again. In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our daughter had her exams in a month’s time
and she didn’t want to disrupt her with our broken marriage. This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.
She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted
her odd request.
I told Sara about my wife’s divorce conditions.  She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy.Our daughter clapped behind us, daddy is
holding mommy in his arms. Her words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the
door, I walked over twelve meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our daughter bout the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

Onthe fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I
didn’t tell Sara bout this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our daughter came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To her, seeing her father carrying her mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our daughter to come closer and hugged her tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my
arms I could hardly move a step. Our daughter  had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy.I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Sara opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Sara, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head.
Sorry, Sara, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because
she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.
Sara seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears.
 I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart. That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed – dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Sara to even  notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our daughter, in case we push thru with the divorce.– Atleast, in the eyes of our daughter— I’m a loving
husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the
mansion, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage! If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you. If you do, you just might save a marriage.Many of life’s failures are people who did
not realize how close they were to success
when they gave up.
Thanx a lot for reading this J J

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

CHORRI CHORRI JAB NAZARRE MILLI :-* LOVELY TRAK


CHURALLO NA DILL MERA SANAM :-)


Monday, May 23, 2011

HEART TOUCHING LOVE STORY :-)


NOTE:- THIS STORY IS NOT MINE, N ALL THE NAMES R FICTIOUS !!

This story happened 3 years ago. I am the type of guy who chases summerz. I loved surfing and partying with my college buddies Amit, Aaysha, Neha and Harry. Aaysha was my first love we share the same interests and we seldom quarrel, that made us last for 2 years and it was great :-D.
We never really broke up, I never heard from her again the time she went to Canada with her parents :-(.
I waited 4 her for 3 months, hoping that she’ll be back or at least call me up but a news came that she got married to a guy that her parents wanted for her :-(. I couldn’t believe what I heard, i was broken into fragments. I don’t know how to continue my life without her — I even thought of committing suicide but Neha came to the rescue.
She was there for me when I felt helpless and miserable, she helped me get back up on my feet again and most of all she taught me how to love again :-). She supported me to the fullest.At first, I wasn’t really in love with her, I just felt sorry for her because she hadn’t given up on me for 5 long months but the time she told me how long she waited for me, I was greatly moved — I hugged her for a long time and promised to repay her with my newly fixed heart :-).
 I learned to love her and cherish each moment that we’re together.I happy all over again.
We’ve been dating for a year and I thought that I should take our relationship to the next level so i proposed to her, she was so dramatic and made her look even more beautiful, she blushed n accepted my propoasal n i was on cloud 9 :-).
 2 months after the engagement I received a call from Harry and Amit — my college buddies.
They suggested that it would be nice if we have a reunion before the wedding, Neha agreed to the idea.
 The reunion was in Goa — a total beach paradise it reminded me of my surfing and partying days. The second day, my life was turned upside down — Aaysha arrived.
I didn’t know what to think, I was speechless, i was aghast. Amit and Harry looked at each other and I can even read their mind they’re saying — Uh oh, this is bad!.  Aaysha smiled at me and greeted me, before I can even say anything (or not) Neha held on me and told her about our engagement , Neha was trying to act cool and friendly but I can feel her fear.
 The next day, I finally came back to my senses !! Aaysha and I got a chance to talk.
She asked  about my life, how my life was and my relationship with Neha, I answered her boastfully bragging about Neha and she said that she was happy for me — her response hurt me in a way I can’t understand, maybe I want to hear her beg me to take her again. It was my time to ask, I asked her how her married life was, then she looked at me with confusion seen on her face. “Married?! I was never married!” — Her reply aghasted me. I told her everything I knew how she married the guy and how her parents approved of it, she laughed upon hearing about it. She told me that her parents did arrange someone for her but she objected and ran away because she loves me — she started to cry when she uttered the words “I love you” to me, then I held her tight and tears fell down my cheeks, I felt the scent and the warmth again that I longed for so long, that feeling was awesome. 
“Are we really going our separate ways?” she asked in a low voice, that question pierced through me, it gave me a shivering effect and I remained silent. We head back to the resort, Neha hugged me and Aaysha walked away. Even though I’m wrapped in Neha's arms my eyes were following Aaysha. Neha is not dumb she knows what’s going on but she acts like nothing is going on — I know she’s hurt and I couldn’t bear see her like that, I asked her if something’s bothering her and she replied that she’s fine and forced a smile, I smile back and faced the other side of the bed — then she held me tightly and started to cry, she told me that’s she’s scared of loosing me. I faced her and held her until she fell asleep, she looked pale and sad, I asked myself if I really love her or am I still in love with Aaysha, at that point my life was bifurcated.All of us partied the next night, I asked Neha to dance with me but she had to pick up a phone call, Aaysha showed up and we danced.
Aaysha looked beautiful as before and memories of us flooded my mind — we kissed. The time I opened my eyes I saw Neha, she was staring at us with tears in her eyes, I attempted to go over to her but she ran away.
Aaysha, apologized and walked away leaving me alone and confuse, I slept on Amit's room that night I don’t have the guts to show my face to Neha. Amit woke me up at 6:30 in the morning, he told me that I had to make a choice — if I choose NEha, Aaysha will be gone for good and if i choose Aaysha, Neha's gone.
It flabbergasted me, honestly, my first choice was Aaysha as i was running to see her on the beach, I thought of Neha and i felt a big lost in my heart, I stopped halfway on where I’m suppose to go.I turned back and ran as fast I could — I realized that I love Neha more.
 I went back to Amit, he gave me Neha’s engagement ring she asked him to give it back to me , Neha left.
I arrived at the airport just in time her flight number was called. How long are you going to keep running away from me? I asked her. She turned back and I hugged her tightly. She asked so many questions about Aaysha but I silenced her the time I knelt and proposed to her again.
 Now we are happily married and we have a son named Rajveer. :-)
" LOVE CAN MAKE WOLRD GO UPSIDE DOWN !! REALIZE IT, BEFORE ITZ TOO LATE. ALWAYS HAVE GUTS TO EXPRESS UR LOVE N U'LL SUCCEED, JUST SPEAK UP"

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Traits of the people who are in love...



*Remember there is no failure in love, as once you tell somebody whom you love, that you love him/her, then you have already succeeded in love. :-)

*Men and women may be equal in value but different by nature. People who truly are in love give their mates "space" to develop their potential and find their fulfillment in life which is very necessary for healthy relation.

*People in love are sensitive to each other's needs, and endeavour to meet them even when they do not feel like doing it. One always make efforts to keep his lover in a comfort zone.

*People in true love become extra possessive and cant see their partner to be amused by anyone else.

* A true lover has an uncontrollable urge to meet his lover, n if he/she calls him/her at any time he just goes running crossing all the barriers.

*They don't feel like looking at anyone else in crowd when they are with there loved ones. They have only one thing in mind itz their partner. :-)

*People who are truly in love are considerate of each other's feelings and courteous in their actions toward one another. Sadly, sarcasm is a way of life for some couples. They may say it is all in fun, but it leaves wounds that will someday become festering sores.

*People who are truly in love look out for their mate's best interests as much as their own.

*Those in love should be concerned not only about their own individual interests, but about the interests of the other as well. They are very much concerned about the little little things their partner do and always want him/her to be happy at any cost.


*People who truly love each other do not take pleasure in their mate's disappointments or failures.

*Some friends are remembered because of their smile :-).

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

What is love

Love is both an action and a feeling. The action of love generates a blissful feeling called by the same name. When the action stops, the blissful feeling is replaced with pain. There is a similar feeling called lust which may be confused with love. You need to decipher between the two in order to have a healthy heart :-). Every person is capable of great love (and its opposite, fear, which generates all painful emotions such as hate, greed and jealousy).
While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself). love happens one cant be forced to love any one and one cant be in love with someone for some reason, it just happens.


There are many types of relationships that involve love, but love itself is a common thread to all those relationships. For example: a mother-son relationship is different from the relationship with a best friend, and both these relationships are different from a romantic relationship. But in each of these relationships, each person loves the other (wants the best for the other). Love this the base of the pyramid.